Things a player will say to you

So you're dating a new guy and totally smitten. He's the full package; he's well-spoken, good-looking, and confident. The only problem is, you have a sneaking suspicion that Mr.

Perfect might be hiding something...

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or worse, someone. Which might naturally lead you to wonder: Is he a player?

What are the signs he’s a player, anyway? To get some input, Elite Daily sat down with dating expert and relationship writer Demetrius Figueroa and Damona Hoffman, certified dating coach and host of The Dates & Mates Podcast.

According to Figueroa, what separates a true player from a single person exploring their options is one thing — manipulation. "If you're a player, you're playing someone, whether that's telling the people you date that each of them is the only person you're seeing, or convincing someone you're single when you're not," says Figueroa.

Figueroa goes on to note that flirting doesn't necessarily mean they’re a player, so don't overreact if they’re giving friendly attention to other people.

"If a guy is flirty, but i

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